Every man is different so naturally some men will really like certain things while others can't stand them. While there are always going to be differences there are some common things that most men want out of their women.
The first and foremost is a woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and have her own opinions. Most women are probably thinking that this is something that all women have the ability to do, and you would be right. Even though all women are able to do this many of them just follow along with a new man's views. They don't express how they really feel if a man's opinion is different from theirs. Their goal here is to come off as flattering and to seem like they have a lot in common but really it just makes things boring. A man wants a woman who is willing to be different. That way you can talk about those differences.
This isn't to say that you should argue with a man about something unimportant. Women should express their opinions in a polite way. If he says something you don't agree with don't be afraid to say so, just be nice about it. Hold your own in the conversation and you will come off as interesting and exciting if you have enough in common. If you don't have enough in common there is no point being in the relationship in the first place.
On the flip side. If a woman goes along a bunch of views that she doesn't believe in and she ends up staying with the man she is going to resent it. Now she is in a relationship based off of lies and is forced to either confront the situation and come clean or pretend to be someone she's not. Either way it is not a good situation to be in.
When a woman finally gets in to a relationship with a new man she should continue to maintain her life. Keep doing what she wants to do and make a little bit of time for the man now and then. It should not be all about him.
Some women smother their new boyfriends and it eventually will drive him away. Everyone likes to have space and women should take advantage of the time along to enjoy the things she loves or to focus on children or her career.
Be your own person who just happens to date a guy. Keeping your identity is one of the most important things that you can do in a relationship.
By keeping these things in mind when looking for a new man women can improve their chances of getting in to the kind of relationships that they want to be in
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